COMMITMENT/LOVE

Commitment is a word defined by the dictionary regarding love as "an engagement or obligation that restricts freedom of action"... no wonder men and women ar afraid of this, do you really think is a restriction of freedom, i would put it in other words, the consumation of love and consolidation of a team, i don't know about you folks, but to have a partner in life means to have a shoulder to lean on and someone that can laugh with you and at you.

Ok ok, let's see it as a partnership which doesn't restrict you, or does it, nature calls and men and women need certain type of reasurrance, either from the opossite sex or from determined actions, and the question invades our minds again, if you're married, you can't do a bunch of things, if you have a boyfriend you can't, you can't... but let's see what we can do, or why else do we obsess about finding our significant other if what we really like is "freedom".

But what happens when you don't believe in commitment and comes along a guy/gal and the butterflies are flying all over your body, well you fall, yep, you fall in love and someday the significant other decides that doesn't want to be commited anymore, in other words, he/she dumps you, what happens? do you still believe in love, in commitment?

Maybe some of us are just in love with love.